Why do people get mad at me for discovering me at being the opposite gender? Why do THEY feel betrayed? I mean we're just FRIENDS. What do they expect from me? I'm sorry for not being the one with the body parts you prefer and wanting more from me, but I don't want more from any of you if that's the way you are. Love is not a boundary. You truly love someone as what and who they are without wanting to change them and simply accepting them as how they are. I know that and if our relationship changes because my gender displeases you then I don't want any type of relationship with you. I know what it's like though, I feel like I've been living in the wrong body ever since I was quite young but I've learned to accept that it's who I am and to live with it even if my current body doesn't suit me whatsoever. I feel like a stranger in it. It's already hard for me, why do people want to make it even harder for me? You can fall in love with any person despite their gender. But some deny it and continue to be hypocrites. If I was the opposite gender I bet many would be glad I am, I know this. Life would be better for me and others in some points and I'll find my partner quicker I believe but life isn't that easy and won't ever be. Though I wouldn't be the same person I am now if I was the different gender. I would be a very difficult person to even get close to. I'm fine as what I am right now, it has it's benefits as well but I'm not completely happy with it. I feel I have boundaries with it. I'm just not very capable of everything and able to handle everything I want to. It lurks inside me, trying to take over each other.